i went shopping at orchard alone. managed to get some new clothes. managed to get the bdae present for ys. just a wallet. well, just suddenly felt that i ought to get him something on his bdae..
shopped till backache. shit, dunno is cannot walk for too long or cannot stand for too long. though i am only 20 plus, but i think i have a body of probably 80 years old? hahaa..
cny is nearing. i used to love cny. but now, i dread cny. partly is cos my relatives at my dad side is getting lesser and we feel further away from each other. makes me very sad.
recently my fren keep telling me not to get married, or not to get married so early or not to have kids soon after marriage. they are having problems in their marriage. the guy suddenly wants freedom, wants time for himself. expect the girl to give in to his request. suddenly they feel drifted apart. suddenly this marriage, this family doesn't seem so happy as they used to do.
not having a boyfriend is a problem. having a boyfriend is a problem. not getting married is a problem. getting married is a problem. having kids is a problem. not having kids is also a problem. so many problems...
suddenly humans can get so selfish. just because the guy wants freedom suddenly, he ask to live by himself for the first 4 days of the week, only to join his family for the remaining 3 days.
does he still remember that he has got a wife, kid to take care of?? its the emotion side of his wife and kid that he has to take care of.. does he ever realise that his wife and kid will feel lonely or feel lost or feel "without a dad or husband" during that 4 days where he's feeling happily abt his freedom??
the guy is not mature yet. yup he's young, perhaps still having some inmature thinking. but it doesnt seem that guys who are older will be more mature...
its his way of handling the problem that is lousy.. or can i say, there is no better way to solve this???
well i dunno.. really dunno.
but from this, i can feel that sometimes one can really get very selfish for himself / herself, not bothering abt their closed ones...
shopped till backache. shit, dunno is cannot walk for too long or cannot stand for too long. though i am only 20 plus, but i think i have a body of probably 80 years old? hahaa..
cny is nearing. i used to love cny. but now, i dread cny. partly is cos my relatives at my dad side is getting lesser and we feel further away from each other. makes me very sad.
recently my fren keep telling me not to get married, or not to get married so early or not to have kids soon after marriage. they are having problems in their marriage. the guy suddenly wants freedom, wants time for himself. expect the girl to give in to his request. suddenly they feel drifted apart. suddenly this marriage, this family doesn't seem so happy as they used to do.
not having a boyfriend is a problem. having a boyfriend is a problem. not getting married is a problem. getting married is a problem. having kids is a problem. not having kids is also a problem. so many problems...
suddenly humans can get so selfish. just because the guy wants freedom suddenly, he ask to live by himself for the first 4 days of the week, only to join his family for the remaining 3 days.
does he still remember that he has got a wife, kid to take care of?? its the emotion side of his wife and kid that he has to take care of.. does he ever realise that his wife and kid will feel lonely or feel lost or feel "without a dad or husband" during that 4 days where he's feeling happily abt his freedom??
the guy is not mature yet. yup he's young, perhaps still having some inmature thinking. but it doesnt seem that guys who are older will be more mature...
its his way of handling the problem that is lousy.. or can i say, there is no better way to solve this???
well i dunno.. really dunno.
but from this, i can feel that sometimes one can really get very selfish for himself / herself, not bothering abt their closed ones...
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